Masturbation Faux Pas

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Masturbation Faux Pas

Masturbation is a normal part of life, and although a taboo topic in some cultures, is a healthy form of sex. Whether it be sexual intercourse, nocturnal emission, or masturbation, all are beneficial to health.  Masturbation can help lower your risk for a heart attack and help reduce stress levels. While many people have masturbated, or do regularly, most don’t discuss it openly. But exploring your own body is not only about self-pleasure, but about utilizing what you learn alone to help you have more fun with a partner.  

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Best Sex Toys for Men

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Sex toys have often been associated with solo play, or masturbation, when a partner is not available for one reason or another. But for many couples where one partner owns a sex toy, it has become commonplace for those sex toys to find their way into the bedroom and into the sexual interaction. Many find toys as a new and exciting sexual adventure with their partners, and a way to keep things interesting. To be sure there are a great many items on the market these days, and not just for women. Here are some ideas (mostly for him), for toys to add some spice to your sex life whether with a partner or alone.

  1. A pulsator: it's called a pulsatior because this toy goes back and forth, instead of side to side. So technically speaking, it's not actually a vibrator. This unique back and forth motion means it mimics the sensation of sex, similar to thrusting.
  2. Remote controlled vibrations: if you've ever asked the question, then someone has surely answered with "there's an app for that!"  The same holds true with sex toys. One of how latest trends in sexual pleasure is called “teledildonics”. This is a group of electronic sex toys that can be controlled by phone, and work in conjunction with an app that can be used to control the vibrator from across the room or across the world. This is something great for keeping connected as a long-distance couple, but of course can be used alone.
  3. Penile stimulator: this toy typically looks like a vacuum cleaner (sorry, but it does), but stimulates the often ignored glands of the penis.  The toy fits snugly over just the head of the penis and vibrates in adjustable patterns and speeds.  It can be used as a tool in masturbation or with a partner during non-penetrative sex, for a new kind of hand job.
  4. Glass Dildo: this toy is intended for rectal use and made from high quality, handmade glass. Because it is glass, it can be used with any type of lubricant, allowing for a lot of variation. An added benefit of a glass dildo is the option for temperature play. It can be put in warm water for a warming sensation, or in the fridge for a cooler sensation.
  5. Stainless steel dildo: Similar to a glass dildo, stainless steel is perfect for temperature play.  It can be used vaginally or anally, and either partner can derive pleasure from its use.
  6. G-Spot stimulator : Perfect for couples who have trouble finding or stimulating the g-spot. This can help men and women experience more intense sexual sensations and open themselves to sexual exploration.  Just to note, there are male and female specific g-spot stimulators that are designed for the curves of each.
  7. Vibrating Rings: Vibrating penile rings are a pretty run of the mill, grab bag type of sex toy.  But that doesn’t mean it can't  be fun.  It is best to find something that is silicon, durable and stays in place.  Some more advanced models offer different levels of intensity and patterns. This toy is great for couples play, as it can be worn around the penis or used for clitoral stimulation.