Part of a healthy relationship is a healthy sexual relationship.  This means opening up about your sexual desires, trusting your partner, feeling safe, and trying new things.  It can be easy, especially in long term relationships to stick to what works, especially in the bedroom.  But the old and tried methods are just that, old and tried.  You may think she is only interested in missionary, but if you are bored of it then chances are she is too.  And what’s the point of sex if one, or both partners are being left unsatisfied, or bored?  A boring sex life can lead to other, more stressful relationship issues.  To reinvigorate the relationship and the sexual connection within a partnership sometimes taking a little risk and being adventurous can really pay off.  Not sure where to start? Here are some positions to try that you may not know your lady is craving:

1. The ‘Face-Off’ Position:

You sits on a chair or the edge of the bed, while she faces you seated on your lap.  This position is sure to turn her on because she is in total control of the pace and depth of the sex.  This also gives you the intimacy of being able to look at one another and touch her, all over.

2. The ‘G-Whiz’ Position:

 This position works by the woman lying on her back with her legs resting on each of his shoulders.  Having the legs raised narrows the vagina, and makes it easier for you to hit her G-Spot, making for an extra stimulation position for both of you.

3. The ‘Upstanding Citizen’ Position:

Not for the weak in the knees, this position required you to stand and support you lady with your arms while she straddles you and wraps her legs around your body.  This position showcases a man’s strength and is sure to fulfill any woman’s fantasies.

4. The ‘Flatiron’ Position:  

This position can be thought of as a sort of reverse missionary.  Both you and your partner lie face down (she is on the bottom) with legs straight and hips slightly raised to fit snuggly into each other.  The benefit is a narrower fit, where you definitely feel like the king of your castle.

5. The ‘Stand and Deliver’ Position:

This position requires both of you to be standing, with your partner facing away from you.  The key to this is having your lady bed at the waist.  Bending at the waist tightens her vaginal walls and increases the intensity of the friction, creating extra pleasure.