Different positions work better for different people, but on a larger scale certain positions work better for one sex over the other.  As orgasms are typically more difficult for women over men, we thought we’d try to shed some light on what positions work best for her.  For many women, controlling depth and speed can be a huge bonus and facilitate orgasm.  Positions like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl allow a woman to control both depth and speed, allowing her to find a rhythm of her own.  These “in control” positions are also great for handling the different shapes and sizes a woman’s partner might come in, especially those men on the larger end of the spectrum.

Similarly, positions which decrease the size of the vaginal canal can be good for the female orgasm as they increase the sexual sensations felt by a woman. These include rear entry positions, like doggy style, or missionary positions where the legs are held more tightly together.   These positions also allow for the deepest penetration, and for increased stimulation and foreplay elsewhere.  Here are some of the best sex positions (don’t mind the funny names!) for the female ‘O’:

·       The ‘G-Whiz’: This position works by the woman lying on her back with her legs resting on each of his shoulders.  Having the legs raised narrows the vagina, and makes it easier for the male to hit her G-Spot.  This will ensure extra stimulation for both of you.

·       The ‘Face-Off’: A male sits on a chair or the edge of the bed, while the female faces him seated on his your lap.  This position gives a woman total control of the pace and depth of the sex.  This also gives a couple the intimacy of being able to look at one another and touch each other, all over.

·       The ‘Flatiron’: This position can be thought of as a sort of reverse missionary.  Both partners lie face down, with the woman on the bottom, with legs straight and hips slightly raised to fit snuggly into each other.  The benefit is a narrower fit, where you definitely feel extra stimulation.

·       The ‘Upstanding Citizen’: Not for the weak in the knees, this position requires a man to stand and support his lady with his arms while she straddles him and wraps her legs around his body.  This position showcases a man’s strength and is sure to fulfill any woman’s fantasies.

·       The ‘Stand and Deliver’: This position requires both parties to be standing, with your partner facing away from you.  The key to this is having the lady bend at the waist.  Bending at the waist tightens a woman’s vaginal walls and increases the intensity of the friction, creating extra pleasure.